“At least if it is an arranged marriage, you can fault your parents, otherwise you will have only yourself to blame. And, believe me, it is always harder to bear something if you cannot blame somebody else for it. -Mr. Ali-”
“You can blame your mother, and she can blame hers. Leastways sooner or later it's the fault of somebody who's dead.”
“...it's always somebody's fault - I blame you for my helpless love - do you think I chose this? Your beauty compelled me...”
“We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change.”
“You have two choices. you can keep running and hiding and blaming the world for your problems, or you can stand up for yourself and decide to be somebody important.”
“What you're blaming yourself for is being who you are. And that's no one's fault and nothing you can change.”