“What happens to us either happens to everyone or only to us: in the first instance it's banal; in the second it's incomprehensible.”
“what has happened to us has happened to everyone or only us; if to everyone, then it's no novelty, and if only to us, then it won't be understood.”
“It's not what happens to us that molds us. It's what we do with what happens to us.”
“It's not what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.”
“It's not so much what happens to us but how we deal with what happens to us.”
“Life happened. In all its banality, brutality, cruelty, unfairness. But also in its beauty, pleasures and delights. Life happened.”