“Victimology is incompatible with growth and healing. If we want one, we must be prepared to give up the other.”
“We... heal ourselves by giving others what we most need.”
“The in-love experience does not focus on our own growth or on the growth and development of the other person. Rather, it gives us the sense that we have arrived and that we do not need further growth.”
“Sometimes we must yield control to others and accept our vulnerability so we can be healed.”
“When we give in the world what we want the most, we heal the broken part inside each of us.”
“Why must it be in human nature to hear one thing but to believe in another?""Because we want things to get better," I said. "Otherwise we would all give up.”