“We set no special value on the possession of a virtue until we percieve that it is entirely lacking in our adversary.”
“We do not place especial value on the possession of a virtue until we notice its total absence in our opponent.”
“For it falls outThat what we have we prize not to the worthWhiles we enjoy it, but being lacked and lost,Why, then we rack the value, then we findThe virtue that possession would not show usWhile it was ours.”
“But then we so rarely understand the value of what we possess until it's gone.”
“Value time!!! It's only when we lack time for ourselves that we start valuing it.”
“No true love is possible, Lewis demonstrates, until we abandon our claims, our rights, our grievances. Until then we will be trapped in the obscurity of our heart's mixed motives, our will to possess, to control, to be our own gods.”