“Love isn't something natural. Rather it requires discipline, concentration, patience, faith, and the overcoming of narcissism. It isn't a feeling, it is a practice.”
“Loving can be hard. Sometimes we don't feel loving, but it isn't all about feeling. Very often it is about will. Practice that if you can.”
“The problem with patience and discipline is that it requires both of them to develop each of them.”
“Caring passionately about something isn't against nature, and it isn't against human nature. It's what we're here to do.”
“Faith is believing in something you know isn't true.”
“Love is an activity, not a feeling…True love is not the helpless desire to possess the cherished object of one’s fervent affection; true love is the disciplined generosity we require of ourselves for the sake of another when we would rather be selfish.”