“The egocentric is always frustrated, simply because the condition of self-perfection is self-surrender. There must be a willingness to die to the lower part of self, before there can be a birth to the nobler.”
“Perfectionism is self destructive simply because there's no such thing as perfect. Perfection is an unattainable goal.”
“What the Father gives is the capacity to be a self, freedom, and thus autonomy, but an autonomy which can be understood only as a surrender of self to the other.”
“Since I am I, I must make an act of self-surrender, however small or however easy, in living to God rather than to my self.”
“public self is a conditioned construct of the inner psychological self.”
“The poorer your self-esteem and the lower your self-confidence, the more easily negative feelings can overwhelm ordinary good sense.”