“And before you know it, the object disappears, arguments evaporate; no culprit is discovered, the offense ceases to be an offense and becomes a matter of fate, like the toothache which cannot be blamed on anyone, and the only thing that's left is, once again, to bang the wall as hard as you can. ”
“Before I built a wall I'd ask to knowWhat I was walling in or walling out,And to whom I was like to give offense.”
“A strong argument for the religion of Christ is this - that offenses against Charity are about the only ones which men on their death-beds can be made - not to understand - but to feel - as crime.”
“But that's the problem with causing offense, isn't it? You don't always know when you do.”
“Cross a man and you struggle, one of you wins, you adjust and go on - or you lie there dead. Cross a woman and the universe is changed, once again, for cold anger requires an eternal vigilance in all matters of slight and offense”
“Stop saying no offense,” I said, “when you say offensive things. It’s not a free pass.”