“What man wants is simply independent choice, whatever that independence may cost and wherever it may lead.”

“One's own free unfettered choice, one's own caprice, however wild it may be, one's own fancy worked up at times to frenzy -- is that very "most advantageous advantage" which we have overlooked, which comes under no classification and against which all systems and theories are continually being shattered to atoms. And how do these wiseacres know that man wants a normal, a virtuous choice? What has made them conceive that man must want a rationally advantageous choice? What man wants is simply independent choice, whatever that independence may cost and wherever it may lead. And choice, of course, the devil only knows what choice.”

“But a good wife—a good unworldly woman—may really help a man, and keep him more independent.”

“To teach a man how he may learn to grow independently, and for himself, is perhaps the greatest service that one man can do another.”

“Choice of attention--to pay attention to this and ignore that--is to the inner life what choice of action is to the outer. In both cases, a man is responsible for his choice and must accept the consequences, whatever they may be.”

“True feeling justifies whatever it may cost.”