This quote by Fyodor Dostoyevsky highlights a profound and spiritual perspective on love. Rather than focusing on superficial traits or personal expectations, Dostoyevsky suggests that true love involves recognizing and appreciating the intrinsic worth and divine essence within another person. To love, in this sense, is to acknowledge their ideal form—how they are meant to be beyond flaws, mistakes, or societal judgments. It implies a deep acceptance and reverence, seeing the beloved through a lens of compassion and understanding that transcends ordinary perception. This view connects love with spirituality, suggesting it can elevate both the lover and the beloved by aligning their vision with a higher, purer truth.
“Love the animals: God has given them the rudiments of thought and joy untroubled.”
“Because everyone is guilty for everyone else. For all the 'wee ones,' because there are little children and big children. All people are 'wee ones.' And I'll go for all of them, because there must be someone who will go for all of them.”
“Love is a holy mystery and ought to be hidden from all other eyes, whatever happens. That makes it holier and better. They respect one another more, and much is built on respect. And if once there has been love, if they have been married for love, why should love pass away? Surely one can keep it! It is rare that one cannot keep it. And if the husband is kind and straightforward, why should not love last? The first phase of married love will pass, it is true, but then there will come a love that is better still. Then there will be the union of souls, they will have everything in common, there will be no secrets between them. And once they have children, the most difficult times will seem to them happy, so long as there is love and courage. Even toil will be a joy, you may deny yourself bread for your children and even that will be a joy, They will love you for it afterwards; so you are laying by for your future.As the children grow up you feel that you are an example, a support for them; that even after you die your children will always keep your thoughts and feelings, because they have received them from you, they will take on your semblance and likeness. So you see this is a great duty.”
“Men reject their prophets and slay them, but they love their martyrs and honor those they have slain.”
“Even there, in the mines, underground, I may find a human heart in another convict and murderer by my side, and I may make friends with him, for even there one may live and love and suffer. One may thaw and revive a frozen heart in that convict, one may wait upon him for years, and at last bring up from the dark depths a lofty soul, a feeling, suffering creature; one may bring forth an angel, create a hero! There are so many of them, hundreds of them, and we are all to blame for them. [...] If they drive God from the earth, we shall shelter Him underground.”
“Being in love doesn't mean loving.”