“Hope in the beginning feels like such a violation of the loss, and yet without it we couldn't survive.”
“Beauty belongs to the beloved who returns the gaze, in whose eyes we see the sun. But in this . . . beauty, in the mutual gaze, also lies the beginning of terror --awe, idealization, overstimulation, violation, loss.”
“You couldn't have strength without weakness, you couldn't have light without dark, you couldn't have love without loss”
“Losing the possibility of something is the exact same thing as losing hope and without hope nothing can survive.”
“We must have humbug, we all like humbug, we couldn't get on without humbug.”
“Only where there is disillusionment and depression and sorrow does happiness arise; without the despair of loss, there is no hope.”