“Did he understand, as those interminable minutes ticked by, that being alone is not the same as being lonely? That being alone is a neutral state… something that exists only in the mind, not in the world, and, like a virus, is unable to survive without a willing host?”
“He could be alone without being lonely.”
“I don't mind being alone either. The only problem is that if you're always alone, you get lonely.”
“There's a lot to be said for being alone. But you and I know, don't we, Flavia, that being alone and being lonely are not at all the same thing?”
“He alone is an acute observer, who can observe minutely without being observed.”
“Being alone and being lonely are two different things.”