“Well, if you can't have what you want, you could try to want what you have.”
“well, sometimes to get what you want the most, you have to do what you want the least.”
“You can't do what you want to, so just do what you have to.”
“No one can have everything, so you have to try for what you want most.”
“We can't know or say what other people do. You have to think what you want to do to get the situation where you want it to be.”
“I could point out that it isn't always easy knowing who you are and what you want, because then you have no excuse for not trying to get it.”