“A dead thing can go with the stream, but only a living thing can go against it.”
“Learn to trust your instincts. Only something dead goes with the tide. Only something living can go against it.”
“When the dead are done with the living, the living can go on to other things," Franny said. "What about the dead?" I asked. "Where do we go?”
“it is a corrupting thing to live one's real life in secret. One should live with the stream of life, not against it.”
“Maybe the only thing I can definitely say about is this: That’s life. Maybe the only thing we can do is accept it, without really knowing what’s going on.”
“We can’t always control what happens in our lives- things will go well, things will go poorly-but what we can control is our response to those events.”