“any relationship is under the control of the person who cares the least.”

“It is our determination to overcome fear and discouragement that constitutes the only effective antidote to the sense of powerlessness over unwanted feelings.”

“If the map doesn't agree with the ground the map is wrong”

“Only bad things happen quickly, . . . Virtually all the happiness-producing processes in our lives take time, usually a long time: learning new things, changing old behaviors, building satisfying relationships, raising children. This is why patience and determination are among life’s primary virtues. ”

“Do you stop caring about someone you love - just because they don't feel the same way?”

“The person that cares the least...controls the relationship. ~Taylor”

“You look like shit." Honesty is important in any relationship.”