“A man would rather be trampled by elephants on fire than tell you he's just not that into you.”

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you.”

“Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You are deeply missable. However, he’s still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.”

“If the guy you’re dating doesn’t seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start ‘figuring him out,’ please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be that into you. And then free yourself to go find someone that is.”

“It's very tempting when you really want to be with someone to settle for much, much less -- even a vague pathetic facsimile of less -- than you would have ever imagined. Remember always what you set out to get and please don't settle for less. These guys exist because there are a lot of women out there who allow them to.”

“If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.”

“If a man is really into you, nothing will stop him from being with you - including a fear of intimacy.”