“Everyone's allowed to be in love with the wrong person at some point. In fact, it's a mistake not to be.”
In this quote by Harriet Evans, she highlights the idea that it is natural and even necessary to experience love for the wrong person at some point in life. This sentiment reflects the fact that relationships and love are complex and often unpredictable. It suggests that such experiences can be valuable lessons in understanding oneself and what one truly values in a partner. Embracing these moments of loving the wrong person can ultimately lead to personal growth and self-discovery.
"“Everyone's allowed to be in love with the wrong person at some point. In fact, it's a mistake not to be.” - Harriet Evans"
“People don't fall in love with each other because it's convenient. They fall in love because they fall in love, and that's it.”
“You don't fall in love with someone because it's convenient.”
“She thought she was a sensible girl. But some kind of love had taken hold of her and refused to let her go, and it wasn't a happy, easy, joyful thing, it had her in a vice-like grip.”
“I think you might have missed the right person, your true love, because you have spent your life looking too hard for him. You have a great capacity to love, Laura. Don’t run away from it. Use it. Stop wasting it. Throw yourself into it, and don’t be scared. I promise you, with all my heart, that you will never live a day when you regret it.”
“It's different up here, you know.""I know," said Laura miserably. "I was -- enjoying myself, that's all."Nick watched her for a moment. "Don't look so tragic about it, Laura. It's not a crime to enjoy yourself, you know.""Yes, it is," muttered Laura, feeling as if she were in some biblical parable, the one where the Lord wreaks vengeance on the stupid girl who is a foolish wanton by removing the last shred of common sense in her brain.”
“Not to be with the one you love, Laura, the one person you should be spending your life with--it’s like a kind of living death. To wake up every morning and know you are still here. To have that brief, sweet moment of blankness, before your mind reminds you who you are, and why you are unhappy. It was like hell. A living hell of the heart’s own making.”