“More often than not, Jesus comes to us incognito.”

“...There's no one in the world that means more to us than Jesus Christ.”

“There are more things to alarm us than to harm us, and we suffer more often in apprehension than reality.”

“In each of us there is another whom we do not know.(quoted in Incognito )”

“Boys often need us to give them more time than girls need, and they often need us to connect their feelings to objects in the outside world.”

“The question should not be "What would Jesus do?" but rather, more dangerously, "What would Jesus have me do?" The onus is not on Jesus but on us, for Jesus did not come to ask semidivine human beings to do impossible things. He came to ask human beings to live up to their full humanity; he wants us to live in the full implication of our human gifts, and that is far more demanding.”