“Expecting conceit they found courtesy. Expecting arrogance they found a man concerned with people’s thoughts and feelings.”

“One of the common denominators I have found is that expectations rise above that which is expected.”

“I found out that “Shame is a reaction to other people’s criticism, an acute personal chagrin at our failure to live up to our obligations and the expectations others have of us. Personal desires are sunk in the collective expectation. (Shame is) the primary device for gaining control over children and maintaining control over adults”

“I never went to Albuquerque expecting to find love. I thought it had found me there, followed me home. I never came home expecting to lose love in the space of one brief telephone call. Is it always so short-lived?”

“It had not been a very cheerful journey, not the least for the western excursion into Outlander territory, where a stubborn and pompous old man had refused to listen to the truth; but Corlath had expected what he found and-she thought-saw no use in being discouraged.”

“There is nothing quite like the expectancy of the beginning writer, unless it is the conceit of the successful one.”