“In my life I've had good days and bad days. Miserable days. Painful days. And no matter how bad the bad ones get, there's a mercy in them. Every single one of them ends.”

“there is something intriguing about knowing how things are going to turn out, but being constantly surprised about how they'll get there.”

“I find the title How to Be Good. Curious, I open it up. I'm disappointed to find it's fiction.”

“Her hand is close to my arm. My options are limited. I can't run away. I can't handle this.I lose myself in food.The rich, wet texture of melting chocolate. The way good aged goat cheese coats your tongue. The silky feel of pasta dough when it's been pressed and rested just enough. How the scent of onions changes, over an hour, from raw to mellow, sharp to sweet, and all that even without tasting. The simplest magic: how heat transforms.”

“I want them to bite into a cookie, and think of me, and smile. Food is love. Food has a power.”

“There is no normal. There's only what's right for you and being honest.”

“We all have our own patterns, I guess ... And whether we like it or not, they persist.”