“In order to fix it, you need a passionate anger about something that doesn't work well.”

“What if talking about your feelings doesn't fix anything? What if what you really need is to make the feelings go away?”

“Any damage that's been done, you have to fix yourself because it needs fixing and there is nobody else to do the work. Blame may well be justified, but it's not going to move you forward in your life.”

“I don't pray because it doesn't work. Prayer doesn't fix anything. Bad things happen anyway.”

“If something doesn't work exactly right, or maybe needs some special treatment, you don't just throw it away. Everything can't be fully operational all the time. Sometimes, we need to have the patience to give something the little nudge it needs.”

“We have hearing aids in order to fix our ears. We have lasik surgery in order to fix our eyes. People ... you can't fix stupid!”