“People thought tolerance was the opposite of intolerance. Whereas in fact it was some meaningless neutrality. A child, any child, growing up, discovering herself and the nature of her deepest, most native desires - what use was tolerance to a child? It was encouragement she needed, encouragement first to be, then to love, herself. Or himself, whichever.”
“The child will grow up and find out things for herself. She will know that I lied. She will be disappointed." "That is what is called learning the truth.”
“A child should never even think about being a "good son." A parent decides that fate for the child. The parent encourages that. Not the child himself. And the "perfect dad"? I shudder at thinking what that may be.”
“It is not enough for the teacher to love the child. She must first love and understand the universe. She must prepare herself, and truly work at it.”
“A mother knows what her child's gone through, even if she didn't see it herself.”
“She held herself until the sobs of the child inside subsided entirely. I love you, she told herself. It will all be okay.”