“Because sometimes words were so pitifully inadequate, and I knew that, but I had to try anyway.”
This quote captures the complex relationship between communication and emotion. Jenny Han acknowledges that words often fall short when it comes to expressing deep feelings or experiences—describing them as "pitifully inadequate." Despite this recognition of their limitations, there is an underlying determination conveyed in "I had to try anyway." This reveals a powerful truth about human connection: even when language seems insufficient, the act of attempting to communicate remains essential. The quote highlights both the frustration of unmet expression and the courage it takes to persist in seeking understanding through words.
“Sometimes it hurts to look at you,” I said. I loved that I could say that and he knew exactly what I meant.”
“And then there was Jeremiah. When I looked at Jeremiah, I saw past, present, and future. He didn’t just know the girl I used to be. He knew the right-now me, and he loved me anyway.”
“I knew I had to be careful. I had to keep my distance. If she knew how much I still cared, it was all over. I wouldn’t be able to walk away again. The first time was hard enough.”
“It’s a known fact that in life, you can’t have everything. In my heart I knew I loved them both, as much as possible to love two people at the same time. Conrad and I were linked, we would always be linked. That wasn’t something I could do away with. I knew that now—that love wasn’t something you could erase, no matter how hard you tried.”
“I knew that now—that love wasn’t something you could do away with, no matter how hard you tried.”
“In his eyes, there was no trace of what had happened earlier, and I could feel something inside me break. So that was that. We were finally, finally over.”