“You can't just change who you are on the outside and expect it to change who you are on the inside.”

“You're crazy if you think that you can run off and change your identity. This unfeeling, preppy girl thing you got going on," he motions his hand at my tank top, white frilly skirt, and curly hair, "is nothing but bull shit. You can't just change who you are on the outside and expect it to change who you are on the inside.”

“Others will notice you, Joclyn. But, you can't let it change who you are deep inside. Have fun for you, not the people around you.”

“You can't fall in love with a man for who he is, and then expect him to change. Just love him, and if he's worth his salt, he'll give you what you need and be the man you need him to be.”

“You can't change who you are, can you? That would require changing the people who made you along the way. That would mean discrediting everything they ever gave you.”

“Wishes are powerful things. You can't expect them to change the world without changing you too.”