“If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals.”
“You could know a man not by what his friends said about him, but by how he treated his servants.”
“Put it like this: show me a man who knows how to treat a woman like dirt, and I will faint with delight at his feet and allow him to treat me like the doormat he so clearly wants me to be.”
“You can always tell how a man will treat his wife by the way he treats his mother.”
“If you want to know what a man is really like, take notice of how he acts when he loses money.”
“However, if you want to know how people would like to be treated, it's more helpful to look at how they themselves act than what they say.”