“If a man is straight, there is no reason for him to feel threatened by a gay man.”

“...if your man sleeps with men, there is nothing sexually you can do that will make him stop.”

“A man knows what he likes, so sex with some men is like sex with a mind reader, someone who knows exactly how you like it.”

“I knew those feelings of wanting to be with another brother were not dead; they were just asleep.”

“The black church must preach the truth and become a place where all men can come and hear the word without feeling they will be judged or ostracized, regardless of their sexual orientation.”

“I never had a tight relationship with my dad- who was an excellent provider but didn't really have much conversation or emotional support for me so...”

“Watching him is intoxicating. I couldn’t dream up a more beautiful man.”