“I once asked a young dissertation writer whether her suddenly grayed hair was due to ill health or personal tragedy; she answered: “It was the footnotes”.”
“A fairly young, intelligent-looking man with long hair asked me whether filming or being filmed could do harm, whether it could destroy a person. In my heart the answer was yes, but I said no.”
“I dream that someone will love me as a person so wholly that it won't matter whether I have gray pubic hair or sagging breast.”
“I felt held hostage by her illness and by the backward mental health system that once again was incapable of helping our family in crisis.”
“footnote:"With all due respect" is grown-up talk for "I think you're stupid.”
“Liv or love?" she asks. I brush her hair away from her neck and rest my hand there, feeling the beating of her pulse. "Either," I answer. "They're the same to me.”