“In my family, we seem to have a tortured history of not saying what we ought to and not meaning what we do.”
“Speak what we feel, not what we ought to say.”
“Recognizing and confronting our history is important. Transcending our history is essential. We are not limited by what we have done, or what we have left undone. We are limited only by what we are willing to do.”
“Most of us don't mind doing what we ought to do when it doesn't interfere with what we want to do, but it takes discipline and maturity to do what we ought to do whether we want to or not.”
“The question shouldn't be what we ought to do, but what we can do.”