“The marriage partner is not really the problem. No other person can ultimately make you happy. You must learn how to be happy within yourself.”
“If you can learn to love yourself and all the flaws, you can love other people so much better. And that makes you so happy.”
“You must try to generate happiness within yourself. If you aren't happy in one place, chances are you won't be happy anyplace.”
“Happiness is only found within...No one can make you happy but yourself! If you are unhappy with who you are...What does that say about you?”
“Instead of thinking how you can change yourself in order to please your partner, as so many relationship books advise, think: Can this person provide what I need in order to be happy?”
“You can measure the happiness of a marriage by the number of scars that each partner carries on their tongues, earned from years of biting back angry words.”