“...if you want your own distinctive voice, you first have to become someone...”
“Become your own soulmate. Then you'll always have someone watching your back, and you'll always have someone who loves you.”
“We want you to take from us. We want you, at first, to steal from us, because you can't steal. You will take what we give you and you will put it in your own voice and that's how you will find your voice.”
“Before you can successfully make friends with others, first you have to become your own friend.”
“Make sure you have your own life before becoming someone's wife~spoken to Oprah in an interview”
“When you listen and read one thinker, you become a clone… two thinkers, you become confused… ten thinkers, you’ll begin developing your own voice… two or three hundred thinkers, you become wise and develop your voice.”