“It is not what we say that hurts but how we say it.”
“The role of a writer is not to say what we can all say, but what we are unable to say.”
“When we say we know something in our bones, we mean we don't know yet how we know what we know. This is what we mean by "bones.”
“Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.”
“Words are not simply an expression of the self; they help to create the self. In struggling to say what we are, we become what we say.”
“We are what we do and say, not what we intend to.”