“The person doing the worrying experiences it as a form of love; the person being worried about experiences it as a form of control.”
“Stop worrying about being that perfect person because no one is perfect. Put your focus on being that right person that will love, understand, and care for that other.”
“Being hurt personally triggered a curiosity about how such beliefs are formed.”
“Biking and love do not make sense without your personal experience”
“I worry about anthropomorphism as a form of self-deception. (The Christian religion is an anthropomorphic account of the universe.)”
“Being a good person, or a better person, or whatever it is you're worried about and trying to fix? It shouldn't change who you are. It means you become more like yourself.”