“Gerald Westerby, he told himself. You were present at your birth. You were present at your several marriages and at some of your divorces, and you will certainly be present at your funeral. High time, in our considered view, that you were present at certain other crucial moments in your history.”
“I notice your absence. I notice your non presence and reflect on the time you were present, in the present, which is obviously in the past.”
“You don’t rewrite it, censor it, or edit it, to suit some warped view you have of the past and your own present.”
“You have told me your history, but speak little fo teh present. Why's that - Sabine Strohem”
“To grow, you must be willing to let your present and future be totally unlike your past. Your history is not your destiny.”
“I enabled your tendency to be vulnerable and weak, and your habits of crying when 6,000 others were present for the music.”