“You can suffer the pain of change or suffer remaining the way you are.”

“There are two kinds of pain: the pain of change and the pain of never changing and remaining the same.”

“Do yourself a favor and forgive anyone that has anything against you. Do it as an act of faith and trust God to change and heal your emotions. Pray for your enemies and never say another unkind thing about them. It is the only way you can move past the pain and begin to heal.”

“Our past may explain why we're suffering but we must not use it as an excuse to stay in bondage.”

“The biggest black eye that you can give the devil is to give God your pain and let Him turn it into gain.”

“I always asked for forgiveness for my sins right away but I never accepted it until I felt right that I had suffered enough to pay for it. God revealed to me what I was doing how much unnecessary pain I was causing myself. He even showed me that what I was doing was an insult to Jesus that in essence I was saying Lord the sacrifice of Your life and blood was good but not good enough. I must add my work of feeling guilty before I can be forgiven.”

“You can be pitiful, or you can be powerful, but you can't be both”