“We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change.”
“It's okay to feel whatever you need to feel. Just promise me that you will never, ever feel guilty. Promise me that you'll never blame yourself. It's not your fault.”
“Never let me hear you say it's someone else's fault. It often is, but you must never shirk your own responsibility ... You can't change others, but you can do something about a fault in yourself.”
“What you're blaming yourself for is being who you are. And that's no one's fault and nothing you can change.”
“You can blame your mother, and she can blame hers. Leastways sooner or later it's the fault of somebody who's dead.”
“...it's always somebody's fault - I blame you for my helpless love - do you think I chose this? Your beauty compelled me...”