“You do not choose who you love. Love just comes about. You can choose who you want or do not want to be around. But love is not a choice, it just forms on its own...”
“What if sometimes there is no choice about what to love? What if the temple comes to Mohammed? What if you just love? without deciding? You just do: you see her and in that instant are lost to sober account-keeping and cannot choose but to love?”
“That's the thing about trust; it's like love. You can't help who you trust or love sometimes - you just do - you can't turn it on and off when you want to.”
“You can't make yourself fall in love, just as you can't choose who you fall in love with.”
“You don't always choose who you love, sometimes it just happens.”
“You can't choose who you love, Kelly, but you can waste it. Why on earth would anyone want to waste it?”