“Was this how trauma worked? she wondered. Those closest to it remained dumbfounded by the fact that those who weren't present could derive meaning from it?”
“in languages that derive from Latin "compassion" means: we cannot look on coolly as others suffer; or, we sympathize with those who suffer”
“How can we know the true meaning of charity if we don't even know how to help those closest to us?”
“I warned myself against the danger of compassion in this case. How easy it would be to imagine the traumas of childhood that might have deformed her into the moral monster she had become, and then to convince myself that those traumas could be balanced - and their effects reversed - by sufficient acts of kindness.”
“If facts are inconvenient, well, damn those who live and work with facts.”
“How was it possible that entire lives could change, could be destroyed, and that streets and buildings remained the same, she wondered.”