“You're not supposed to let a guy define you, but what if not having him as part of your definition is harder than having him at all.”

“Now, revealing that you're a keeper is no guarantee that this guy won't just walk away. Some men really are just sport fishing and have no intention of doing anything more than throwing back the women they bed. If this is the cae with this man, then let him walk-what do you care? He's not the guy you're looking for.”

“Clever, but schoolteacher beat him anyway to show him that definitions belonged to the definers - not the defined.”

“Ultimately, you have to not worry about people thinking you should have played him differently. You're the one playing the part so it has to be yours.”

“Don't be sorry you loved him. That's part of you, part you have to let go...”

“Turn to the Lord. Exercise all of the faith you have in Him. Let Him share your burden. Allow His grace to lighten your load.”