“His mother understood my illness immediately, that it was my world rather than myself that was diseased.”
“I needed to know that my mother understood that her hand was in this too. That all the jealousy and envy and shame we carried was our own kind of sickness. As much a disease as Toby and Finn’s AIDS.”
“Rather than feeling vindicated, I felt guilty. It seemed cruel, and all my fault, somehow. My relationship with my mother had always brought into question any sense I had of myself as a good and decent person. [p. 128]”
“My mother and I never really understood one another. We translated each other's meanings and I seemed to hear less than what was said, while my mother heard more.”
“Language change is not a disease, any more than adolescence, or autumn are illnesses.”
“Being single isn't a terminal disease.""Try telling that to my mother.”