“We reveal something of our nature when we sing, something that can be disguised in our speaking voice.”

“There are times when we need the rocket fuel of singing and dancing to power us through an act of blind faith. Falling in love is one of those times, when we need to move into a phase of enchantment with enough force so that when things cool and the air clears, we are locked into that person, that love. We fall in love and we sing as we walk down the street; we turn up the music and dance.”

“When children meet other children, they have to do something -- fight or play.”

“Why did girls never play air guitar? Did we sing along because singing was what girls did or was it that girls only sang because they didn't play air guitar? These are not questions I asked myself at the time. I was pushing away such complications.”

“I got to know [teen music] as we absorb music in passing but can remember only its seriousness and weight.”

“This is the starting point of dance: something -- the music, the steps, your partner -- holds you but you also have to hold it and, to achieve the necessary tension, hold yourself against it.”

“Being a woman seemed to mean listening to the music boys liked and neither dancing nor singing along.”