“If friendship were a matter of bookkeeping -- so much joy in one column, so much sorrow in the other -- everything would cancel out and you would, it seems, be left with nothing. Yet there must be another factor in the equation, for somehow the joy outweighs the sorrow.”
“Life essentially seeks out balance.I have found that it is in the habit of trading one sorrow for one joy until one cancels out the other.”
“Sorrow and joy, he thought, so inextricably entwined that he could scarcely tell where one left off and the other began.”
“Every meeting led to a parting, and so it would, as long as life was mortal. In every meeting there was some of the sorrow of parting, but in everything parting there was some of the joy of meeting as well.”
“One takes what the river offers, both good and bad. The joy of living by running water far outweighs the sorrow.”
“One must have sorrow to truly appreciate joy.”