“Saying someone can't be sad because someone else may have it worse is like saying someone can't be happy because someone else may have it better. ~Unknown”
In today's fast-paced world, where social media often highlights curated snippets of others' lives, it's easy to fall into the trap of comparison. The quote by L.R. Knost emphasizes the importance of recognizing individual emotional experiences, regardless of how they stack up against others'.
Acknowledging that feeling sad or happy is valid, irrespective of the circumstances of others, allows for a more compassionate understanding of mental health. It reminds us that every person's feelings are legitimate and deserve attention, creating space for empathy and support in our communities. This perspective is crucial, especially as mental health awareness continues to grow, encouraging us to honor our emotions and those of others without diminishing them through comparisons.
“For a child, it is in the simplicity of play that the complexity of life is sorted like puzzle pieces joined together to make sense of the world.”
“Fairy tales in childhood are stepping stones throughout life, leading the way through trouble and trial. The value of fairy tales lies not in a brief literary escape from reality, but in the gift of hope that goodness truly is more powerful than evil and that even the darkest reality can lead to a Happily Ever After. Do not take that gift of hope lightly. It has the power to conquer despair in the midst of sorrow, to light the darkness in the valleys of life, to whisper “One more time” in the face of failure. Hope is what gives life to dreams, making the fairy tale the reality.”
“It's not our job to toughen our children up to face a cruel and heartless world. It's our job to raise children who will make the world a little less cruel and heartless.”
“But who have the ability to know what will fit into a new individual? And who can say to someone else what happiness looks like, who can say what someone else wants to be?”
“If you carry someone else's fears and live by someone else's values, you may find that you have lived their lives.”
“You can't plan someone else's future, and I fully plan to become someone else.”