“Sometimes you have to be a bitch to get things done.”

“I'm tough, I'm ambitious, and I know exactly what I want. If that makes me a bitch, okay.”

“There's no such thing as the perfect soulmate. If you meet someone and you think they're perfect, you better run as fast as you can in the other direction. 'Cos your soulmate is the person that pushes all your buttons, pisses you off on a regular basis, and makes you face your shit.”

“I laugh at myself. I don't take myself completely seriously. I think that's another quality that people have to hold on to... you have to laugh, especially at yourself.”

“Don’t just stand there let’s get to it. Strike a pose, there’s nothing to it.”

“A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That's why they don't get what they want.”

“It's not easy having a good marriage--but I don't want easy. Easy doesn't make you grow. Easy doesn't make you think. I thank God everyday that I am married to a man who makes me think. That's my definition of true love.”