“I knew very well that this hope was chimerical. I was like a pauper who mingles fewer tears with his dry bread if he tells himself that at any moment a stranger will bequeath to him his fortune. We must all, in order to make reality more tolerable, keep alive in us a few little follies.”
In this quote by Marcel Proust, the author reflects on the concept of hope and its role in making reality more bearable. Proust uses the analogy of a pauper imagining a stranger bequeathing him a fortune to illustrate the idea of holding onto unrealistic hopes in order to cope with the hardships of life. This quote emphasizes the importance of maintaining a sense of optimism and holding onto "little follies" in order to navigate through the difficulties and disappointments of reality.
In our modern society, where uncertainty and challenges are often present, it is important to hold onto hope and keep alive a few little follies. Proust's analogy of a pauper dreaming of inheriting a fortune reminds us that maintaining optimism and allowing ourselves to dream can make reality more bearable. This quote serves as a reminder to not lose sight of the possibility of better things to come, even in the face of adversity.
"I knew very well that this hope was chimerical. I was like a pauper who mingles fewer tears with his dry bread if he tells himself that at any moment a stranger will bequeath to him his fortune. We must all, in order to make reality more tolerable, keep alive in us a few little follies." - Marcel Proust
Reflecting on this quote by Marcel Proust, consider the following questions:
What are some "chimerical hopes" or "little follies" that you hold onto in order to make reality more tolerable?
Do you find comfort or solace in these unrealistic hopes, or do they ultimately bring more disappointment?
How do these little follies impact your day-to-day life and your overall well-being?
In what ways can embracing these small illusions be both detrimental and beneficial to one's mental health and outlook on life?
“We are all of us obliged, if we are to make reality endurable, to nurse a few little follies in ourselves.”
“If we are to make reality endurable, we must all nourish a fantasy or two.”
“They buried him, but all through the night of mourning, in the lighted windows, his books arranged three by three kept watch like angels with outspread wings and seemed for him who was no more; the symbol of his resurrection”
“In reality every reader is, while he is reading, the reader of his own self. The writer's work is merely a kind of optical instrument which he offers to the reader to enable him to discern what, without this book, he would perhaps never have perceived in himself.”
“The belief that a person has a share in an unknown life to which his or her love may win us admission is, of all the prerequisites of love, the one which it values most highly and which makes it set little store by all the rest. Even those women who claim to judge a man by his looks alone, see in those looks the emanation of a special way of life. That is why they fall in love with soldiers or with firemen; the uniform makes them less particular about the face; they feel they are embracing beneath the gleaming breastplate a heart different from the rest, more gallant, more adventurous, more tender; and so it is that a young king or a crown prince may make the most gratifying conquests in the countries that he visits, and yet lack entirely that regular and classic profile which would be indispensable, I dare say, for a stockbroker.”
“Had my parents allowed me, when I read a book, to pay a visit to the region it described, I should have felt that I was making an enormous advance towards the ultimate conquest of truth. For even if we have the sensation of being always enveloped in, surrounded by our own soul, still it does not seem a fixed and immovable prison; rather do we seem to be borne away with it, and perpetually struggling to transcend it, to break out into the world, with a perpetual discouragement as we hear endlessly all around us that unvarying sound which is not an echo from without, but the resonance of a vibration from within. We try to discover in things, which become precious to us on that account, the reflection of what our soul has projected on to them; we are disillusioned when we find that they are in reality devoid of the charm which they owed, in our minds, to the association of certain ideas; sometimes we mobilise all our spiritual forces in a glittering array in order to bring our influence to bear on other human beings who, we very well know, are situated outside ourselves where we can never reach them.”