“remembering and forgiving can be contrary things”
“How can you forgive if you can’t remember to forget?”
“So how can you forgive if you can’t remember toforget?”
“Or I can forgive and forget...Oh, but my treasure, it is so much less exhausting. You only have to forgive once. To resent, you have to do it all day, every day. You have to keep remembering all the bad things...we always have a choice.”
“I remember everything but forgive anyway.”
“He gave her an indulgent look. "I'll forgive these rash words for now." She sputtered, "Forgive? Let's talk about who should be forgiving who.""Whom," he corrected."Shut up! I'm in the right here. Remember all those things you did to me?”