“As we tell stories about the lives of others, we learn how to imagine what another creature might feel in response to various events. At the same time, we identify with the other creature and learn something about ourselves.”
“As we learn about each other, so we learn about ourselves”
“The wonderful thing about books is that they allow us to enter imaginatively into someone else’s life. And when we do that, we learn to sympathize with other people. But the real surprise is that we also learn truths about ourselves, about our own lives, that somehow we hadn’t been able to see before.”
“Unless we learn how to humbly tell each other our giving stories, our churches will not learn to give.”
“We ain't anything more than a name and some likes and some distastes, and a story we tell about ourselves.' And what others say about us.”
“...What happens is of little significance compared with the stories we tell ourselves about what happens. Events matter little, only stories of events affect us.”