“The purpose of marriage is not to have pleasure and to be idle, but to procreate and bring up children, to support a household. This, of course, is a huge burden full of great cares and toils. But you have been created by God to be a husband or a wife that you may learn to bear these troubles. Those who have no love for children are... unworthy of being called men or women; for they despise the blessing of God, the creator and author of marriage.”
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Analysis
In this quote, Martin Luther emphasizes the traditional purpose of marriage as procreation and raising children, rather than solely seeking pleasure or leisure. He argues that those who do not have love for children are failing to appreciate the blessings of God, who is the creator of marriage. Luther's view on marriage highlights the responsibilities and sacrifices that come with the institution, suggesting that it is a divine duty to bear the burdens that come with raising a family.
Modern Relevance of Martin Luther's Views on Marriage
In today's society, the purpose and importance of marriage are often debated and questioned. Martin Luther's views on marriage highlight the significance of procreation, raising children, and supporting a household within the institution of marriage. This perspective continues to hold relevance in the modern world, as it emphasizes the responsibilities and blessings that come with being a husband or wife.
Martin Luther on the Purpose of Marriage
"The purpose of marriage is not to have pleasure and to be idle, but to procreate and bring up children, to support a household. This, of course, is a huge burden full of great cares and toils. But you have been created by God to be a husband or a wife that you may learn to bear these troubles. Those who have no love for children are... unworthy of being called men or women; for they despise the blessing of God, the creator and author of marriage." - Martin Luther
Reflection Questions:
In light of Martin Luther's quote about the purpose of marriage being to procreate and raise children, consider the following reflection questions:
- How do you personally view the purpose of marriage, and how does this align with or differ from Luther's perspective?
- Do you believe that the decision to have children is essential in a marriage? Why or why not?
- How do societal norms and expectations around marriage and family influence individuals' beliefs and decisions regarding procreation?
- In what ways can the challenges and responsibilities of raising children strengthen a marriage, according to Luther's viewpoint?
- Reflect on your own beliefs and values regarding marriage, procreation, and family life, and consider how they may have been shaped by cultural, religious, or personal influences.
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