“- It was a joke. Remember irony.- Sister of bitterness?”

“The fragile and ancient hurt that seeps out of adults when they speakof wronged childhoods.”

“It is one of those rare moments when we seem to forget everything,forget this insistence on living in the moment.”

“Don't go back to teaching - it sucks the marrow from your sould andyour wisdom fades into the brick brains of those who can not learnwhat they do not know. Teaching is a wall falling into a vermilionsea. What I like most about you is your yellow flaring laugh and itlashing joyfully against the wind of your anguish.”

“Remember that there's a time to hate and a time to heal.”

“In many ways we were what Billy and Ruth Graham called 'happily incompatible'.”

“Truth was such a tricky thing when it came to children. When was it good medicine and when was it poison”