“If you have wonderful moments, don't second-guess them, just enjoy them.”

“Feelings can have a life of their own and you have very little direct control over them, except perhaps to make them worse.”

“Once upon a time, loss of love, rejection, weakness and loss of territory all meant death. Now it just feels that way.”

“Happiness requires a balance. If you feel rejected, you need to pursue love with dignity. If you feel put down you need to restore your dignity in an attractive fashion.”

“What counts in battle is what you do when the pain sets in.”

“Peace is possible, and it will take a miracle.”

“The poorer your self-esteem and the lower your self-confidence, the more easily negative feelings can overwhelm ordinary good sense.”