“People on horses look better than they are. People in cars look worse than they are.”

“The earth we abuse and the living things we killwill, in the end, take their revenge; for inexploiting their presence we are diminishing our future.”

“Women are repeatedly accused of taking things personally. I cannot see any other honest way of taking them.”

“I was used to sleeping with people because I endlessly found myself in identical situations where it was easier to just fuck them than to say no.”

“But in some ways, the most significant choices one makes in life are done for reasons that are not all that dramatic, not earth-shaking at all; often enough, the choices we make are, for better or for worse, made by default.”

“I don't think people realize, when they're just getting started on an eating disorder or even when they're in the grip of one, that it is not something that you just "get over." For the vast majority of eating-disordered people, it is something that will haunt you for the rest of your life. You may change your behavior, change your beliefs about yourself and your body, give up that particular way of coping in the world. You may learn, as I have, that you would rather be a human than a human's thin shell. You may get well. But you never forget.”

“This is the very boring part of eating disorders, the aftermath. When you eat and hate that you eat. And yet of course you must eat. You don’t really entertain the notion of going back. You, with some startling new level of clarity, realize that going back would be far worse than simply being as you are. This is obvious to anyone without an eating disorder. This is not always obvious to you.”