“I wanted, then, to become what I most admired, what now seemed most real to me. I wanted to be that exalted, complicated presence in someone's life, the familiar body, the source of another's existence. But I knew what I wanted was not always what I needed.”
“I think it's a real gift to be able to say that what's in your life is enough. It seems most of us re always wanting more.”
“A great weight had been lifted off of my shoulders. Ben wasn’t what I wanted or needed. I wanted someone who knew me, the real me. I needed the person who knew all my secrets and fears. I wanted a person who lived and fought passionately. I wanted my best friend.”
“I don't want to get what I want; but, what I need through what I want; but, everything still involves around what I want. Because what I want is what i need; and, what I need is what I want”
“All that I need now is someone with the brains and the know-how to tell me what I want.”
“What I really wanted was every kind of life, and the writer’s life seemed the most inclusive.”